From the Washington Post
"This is why we have this proverb," one repentant torturer told me, " bay kou bliye pote mak sonje .[http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2006/09/22/AR2006092201304_pf.html|" The one who strikes the blow might easily forget, but the one who wears the scars must remember.]